The Top 10 Guide to Dating in New York

Posted on 23. Jul, 2008 by admin in Dating

Are you single and new to New York? I bet you are freaking out, wondering where are you going to meet people? Which side of town is the best to hang out? What should you wear? This is ‘New York fashion’ is important. How much money should you keep on hand? Fear not, this guide is designed specifically for newcomers to the city.

1) Settling In

Where you choose to live in New York is very important to your social life. Most singles chose Manhattan because this is where all the jobs and hot spots can be found.

2) Finding Work

Having the right job can have a huge impact on your dating life. Here are a few companies you may want to check out.

Goldman Sachs -  offers average salary of $127,000
American Express -  is 61% female
Pricewaterhouse Coopers - has program to reduce employee hours

3) Dress for Success

If you are going to look like a real New Yorker, you have to get yourself a pair of stylish sunglasses, they are the main accessory in the city. The cutoff khakis that are popular with men in NYC this season are great for a casual date.

4) Cost

The average date in New York will run you about $200. Here are a few date expenses you can expect to pay for you and your date:

Coffee - $1.50
Movie - $20.50
Ice Cream - $4.50
Theatre - $380.00
Rock Climbing - $40.00

There are several museums in the city that offer free admission. One of the best free dates in the country is a picnic in Central Park.

5) Transportation

The main mode of transportation in New York is their famous taxi cabs. The initial fare for the cab should be about $2.50 and then you should expect to pay around $0.40 per every four blocks and $0.40 for each idle minute. Most cabs charge a surcharge for peak times and night rides, usually $0.50 to $1.00. Any toll charge is extra. Additional passengers are free. A gratuity of about 15% to 20% will be expected.

6) Boroughs

New York City consists of five boroughs the Bronx, Brooklyn, Manhattan, Queens and Staten Island. Here is a list of some of the potential date attractions you will find at each.

The Bronx - Yankee Stadium, Bronx Zoo
Brooklyn - Coney Island
Manhattan - Central Park, Broadway, Greenwich Village, Madison Square Garden
Queens - Shea Stadium, LaGuardia Airport, JFK International Airport
Staten Island - Staten Island Ferry, Statue of Liberty, Ellis Island

7) Places to Go

New York is a city full of energy with an abundance of hot dating spots. Here are just a few:

Buddha Bar - A lavish night spot frequented by celebrities with dining and dancing
Max Brenner, Chocolate by the Bald Man - A restaurant with all the chocolate you can eat and more.
Asiate - A breathtaking view from the 35th floor

8) The Nightlife

There are several different types of clubs and late night hangouts where you can take a date or go to meet someone new. Here is a list of some of the hottest spots:

55 Bar - Jazz Club - Cover $3 ($15 on Mike Stern night), 2 drink minimum
Aria - Dance Club - Cover $20
BAM Cafe - Under 21 Hot Spot - No cover, $10 drink/food minimum
C-Note - Music Venue - No cover, Sunday night open mic
Dominion - Lounge/Theatre - Weekend cabaret show $20 , No cover
The Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre - Comedy Theatre - No show over $5
Barrow Street Ale House - Bar - $1 draft all day long
Florent - Hell’s Kitchen dining - Open around the clock
Corner Billiards - Pool Hall - Frequented by the younger crowd including student of NYU
Leisure Time Bowling Center and Cocktail Lounge at the Port Authority - Bowling Alley - $5.25 per person per game, $3.50 shoe rental

9) Food

New York is known for places to eat, try one of these great dining spots:

Bar Pitti - Italian
Pearl Oyster Bar - American
Omen - Japanese

10) Flexibility

New York never stops, be ready.


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